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About Tête-á-Tête

How does the app work?

Users create real date proposals — choosing a time, a place, and adding a unique description of the date. Others can request to join the date proposal. Once that request has been accepted by the user who created the date, both parties get the date details and meet, tête-à-tête.

What makes us different?

Unlike dating apps that keep you swiping, we’re about showing up. No endless chatting. No ghosting. Just real plans, real people, and real dates — intentionally designed to lead offline. A match on our app means you’re actually meeting someone, tête-à-tête.

Is it free to use?

Yes, Tête-à-Tête is completely free to use. You can create and request dates without paying.

Is my information kept private?

Yes. Your personal information and requests are never public. Only the creator of a date proposal can see who has requested to join. Your data is handled securely and never shared without your consent.

Is this for hookups, relationships, events or only experiences?

Tête-à-Tête is for intentional connections. Whether you’re looking for something casual, serious, or simply open to shared experiences — the focus is on meaningful, real-life encounters, and meeting tête-à-tête. You choose the vibe, and you’re in control.

Using Date Proposals

What date proposals are allowed?

You can propose anything that feels like a date — from coffee, cocktails, dinner or gallery visits, to more playful ideas like paddle tennis or cooking classes. As long as it’s respectful, safe, and clear, it’s allowed.

Can I propose more than one date at a time?

You can propose up to three dates at a time. Just make sure you’re available for each one — and open to who might show up.

What happens when I accept someone’s request for my date proposal?

Once you accept a request, that person will receive a confirmation — and no one else will be able to attend that date. You are then expected to show up at the time and the place of the date you created. You don’t need to do anything else.

What happens when I send a request to a date proposal?

Your request is sent privately to the creator of that date. Only they can see your profile and decide whether to accept it. Once your request has been accepted, you are then expected to show up.

Can I change or cancel my date proposal?

Yes. You can edit or cancel your date at any time before it’s been confirmed. Once you accepted someone’s request, changes are limited to time or location. Otherwise, cancelling after confirming a request might result in a penalty and your account might be flagged.

Can I view someone’s profile before I meet them on the date?

Yes. You can view the profile of the user who created the date proposal, and if you’ve created a date, you’ll also be able to view the profiles of users who have requested to join your date.

Account & Experience

Do I need an account to view or request a date?

Yes, you’ll need an account to interact with date proposals — whether that’s requesting to join a date, accepting requests, or creating your own.

Can I hide my profile or pause my account?

Absolutely. You can pause your profile at any time if you need a break. While paused, your profile won’t be visible to others and any existing dates you created will be deleted.

Will my matches be public or private?

Private. Only you and the other user will know once a match is confirmed. Others will not be notified or able to see who you’re meeting.

What happens after a date?

After the date, you can share feedback about the experience, report any issues, or simply continue using the platform to propose or request new dates.

Who can see my date proposal request?

Only the creator of the date proposal can see who has requested to join their date. Your request is private — it won’t be visible to other users, and no one else will know you’ve expressed interest for that date proposal.

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